Asking for a friend
I found my friend's husband on Tinder. Do I tell her?
Tell her71%
Stay out of it29%
1,842 answers
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Relays move one person at a time. You receive something from someone you know, do something with it and send it to someone else you know.
If something is better accomplished with a group text, use a group text. Relays does not wish to replace things that already work.
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Asking for a friend
Anonymous public questions. Whoever hands one to you probably isn't the person who asked it.
Asking for a friend
Can I hook up with my ex's best friend? We dated four years.
Go for it22%
Absolutely not58%
Ask your ex first20%
1,204 answers
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Asking for a friend
Everyone in my friend group was invited to a wedding except me. Do I ask why?
Ask directly64%
Let it go36%
904 answers
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Asking for a friend
My ex invited me to his wedding without a plus one. Would you go?
Go alone41%
Politely decline47%
Go, bring someone anyway12%
657 answers
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Asking for a friend
My boyfriend proposed and I'm not sure I want to say yes. Does that mean I already know the answer?
Yes, you know55%
No, take your time45%
418 answers
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Challenges
Start any of these inside your own network. Your Relay, your people.
Challenge
Show me your sunset.
8,471 participants · 602 relays
Challenge
Make your version of this cake.
3,162 participants · 214 relays
Challenge
See if we can reach all 50 states.
2,410 participants · 38 relays
32 of 50 states
Challenge
Recreate a picture of your parents from when they were your age.
1,946 participants · 151 relays
Challenge
Make your version of this dish.
1,288 participants · 97 relays
Challenge
Add one sentence to this story.
774 participants · 63 relays
What's new
The newest public questions and challenges, newest first. People decide which ones travel.
Challenge
Beat this trick.
5 participants · 1 relays
Asking for a friend
My roommate's new partner basically lives here. Do I ask for rent?
Results are still coming in
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Challenge
Take a shot wherever you are.
9 participants · 2 relays
Asking for a friend
Is it weird that I still text my high school teacher?
Results are still coming in
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How it works
Sarah→Mike→Jen→Chris→Alex
- You get something from someone you know.
- You do something with it.
- You think of one person.
- You pass it on.
- That's a Relay.
It might reach five people. It might reach 50,000. It only needs one person at a time.
You don't have to be viral.
You just have to be connected.